Some dating software providers will do anything to sell dating software and VLD Personals is no different. Now, this is true if you can believe it. So, try not to laugh as hard as I did.

VLD Personals posted a press release today saying that they have won the award for “Most Reliable Dating Software of the year for 2009″. LOL, that is such bullshit. First off, how can you say you have the award for the year when the year just started? Second, THERE IS NO SUCH AWARD PEOPLE!!!!. Yep, there is no award for best dating software. It’s just another tatic to try to sell dating software.

I find it very funny that people will try any trick they can to sell dating software. If you ask me, VLD Personals is no better than the scammers at ABK-Soft.com. Both are run by Russians somewhere in Eastern Europe and both dating softwares are complete crap. I wouldn’t use VLD Personals software even if you gave it to me much less buy the stuff. It’s crap.

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Yep, Fake Dating Site Profiles is the next topic I want to discuss. There are many dating software providers out there that will try to sell you fake member profiles. While this can be tempting, it’s best to pass on it.

You see, some dating software providers will do anything to sell you their software and while some might be good, the actual idea of fakes profiles on your dating site is not. You must, at all cost, not put fake profiles on your site. The reasons are many. You want to grow you site like a grass roots campaign. You want to transform your dating software into the best niche market dating site you can create.

When people come to your dating site and they see you have tons of members, that’s good. In fact, that is really good because content is what sells. Content are members and the more content you have the better your site is and the more valuable your site becomes.

If i were to come to your website and I see that you have a few hundreds profiles and they look good, then chances are I’m going to create a profile. Whether your site is free or paid, I’m still going to  join if that is what I’m looking for. So, I join and I pay your $24 dollar monthly service fee and I start emailing some of the people that I was interested in but wait, no one is responding, so I send more emails, no responses. I spend a few days waiting for replies and nothing. I have just wasted $24 dollars for nothing and all because you want to give more content to your site. You have just now left a bad taste in my mouth and I won’t be back and I won’t tell anyone about your site. You just wrecked your new dating site and all because you wanted fake profiles.

It might be tempting to give your site fake profiles but don’t do it. I have seen what can happen to sites that have fake profiles. Grow it the right way, grow it where you will become more interesting to your member base. Inject yourself into your new dating software. Become one with your members and start your new dating site by enlisting your family and your friends to create profiles. Start from your own community and grow from there.

Remember, fake profiles are not your friends. They are only created by dating software providers that want to sell you their crappy software so they put all these things like fake profiles to enhance their product so that you don’t see the real issue and the real issue is that their software is more likely a piece of crap.

Oh, and stay away from Russian dating software providers. If you have read anything on this site then you know what I’m talking about and if you don’t, read my dating software reviews!

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The top spot goes to Wazzum.com. This software has everything you need for a dating site. With the added bonus of a banner free and ad free Live Video Chat and Live Video Instant Messenger. The price is great too. It’s the most affordable dating software with the most features. The biggest thing I like is the fact that they are located in America. When you call there phone, you get an American, not some Russian trying to scam you.

Another thing I really like about Wazzum.com is that they are constantly adding new features. I was talking to a dating site owner yesterday and he told me that he asked Wazzum for a specific feature and they added to his site. They didn’t even charge for it. Granted that feature went into the demo but still, he got a free feature. That was pretty cool.  They are always adding new stuff. In the last two days they have added SMS Alerts and a really interesting My Match that allows you to customize the profile questions as matchable. This would be just a normal feature if it wasn’t for the fact that you can add your own profile questions and then make them matchable. This is a pretty nice thing.

This morning I spoke to Michael by phone and he told me that they are constantly adding new things to the dating software. While he was tight lip about some of the new stuff, he did tell me about the new social community software that will be coming out soon. His words to me where “It will blow everything else away”. That is a quote! So, I was able to get a little information about it and what little i did get was that you will be able to do anything you want with it and all without touching one ounce of code. This will be great news for those out there that don’t even know what FTP is. No insult intended!

Again, I’ve chosen Wazzum Dating Software 2.0 as my favorite because it works. It works and they have great ideas and plans for new exciting stuff. I know that some might not like the fact that it only comes with one template but you can modify that template.

Now, this doesn’t take away from all the other reviews here at DatingScripts. There are other dating software providers that have good software but none of them are doing what Wazzum is doing. I’m very impressed with what they are doing. So, Wazzum, keep up the good work.

Be sure to check out all the other dating script reviews here by clicking the Dating Software Reviews at the top of the site. There are providers you need to watch out for…

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Let me explain how this site works. We give honest reviews about all the dating software providers. It’s based on personal experience as well as hundreds and hundreds of customers emails. There is not one dating software provider here that is promoted as the only best one. If you read the dating software reviews you will see that there are a few good ones and a lot of bad ones. We don’t have affiliate accounts with any of these dating software providers because that would make us a bit more biased. So, when you go to one of the dating software providers here and you purchase their software, we do not get a commission.

We have been accused of promoting one dating software and that is simply not the case. There are more than 3 dating software providers that we recommend here at DatingScripts.biz. Each one has their own unique take on dating software. Do we give more credit to those that deserve it? Yes, we do because if there is a dating software company that stands out in a crowd then they need to be recognized and that is what we do. We also bring to light the scammers out there as well. There are a few dating software software providers that just want to rip you off. Companies like ABK-Soft.com (Abledating) is one of them. You can consider us a consumer information website and we will call it like we see it. If we find out information on a company then we will post it. If we find a BBB report, we’ll post it. We will post all the good and bad information about dating software providers so that consumers have the knowledge they need before they make the purchase. Considering the way the economy is today, it’s just the right thing to do.

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This post is a reply post to a comment I received this morning that I refused to approve because it promoted a free lance site and I’ll explain why. The commenter wrote that you could go to a free lance programmer site and pay about 1000 dollars and get your own dating site created. Let me first tell you that it is impossible to do. There is no company in the world that can create a dating site for that little money. It takes thousands of dollars to create a decent dating site that will work properly. With dating sites, there are hundreds and hundreds of pages that have to be created with thousands and thousands of lines of code. You couldn’t integrate a payment gateway in a dating site for that amount of money.

So, for all those who are looking to start a dating site, let me tell you, the best way to go about it is to find a decent open source package that is template driven. Then make sure all the features work. Then go about customizing it to fit your needs. There is no reason to try to develope your own package unless you have about $60,000 dollars to spend on development. It’s just not worth it. So, why go buy milk when you have the cow at home! hehe. But seriously, you don’t need to do that.

If you have questions about any of the dating software providers that you see here on this site, please contact me. We have first hand knowledge of every one of the dating software providers.

Also, stay away from ABK-Soft.com, otherwise known as Abledating, Ablespace, Businessspace, you will lose $595 dollars. I get asked a lot about that company and people get the same answer. Stay away from them. If there is one company I do not like it’s ABK-Soft.com. They will rip you off. It’s not a question of if, but a question of when. Don’t lose your money.

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